Valentine’s Day Activities

If you don’t know what to do on Valentine’s Day, but you do know, you don’t want to give the love of your life the same old chocolates and flowers that everyone else is getting, then you'll need to mix it up a bit and have some originality, here are some tips that will help get you in the right direction.

Reenact your first date

One of the most romantic things you can do is get nostalgic with your girlfriend or wife. Women go gaga for guys who remember the details of the past, such as the restaurant you went to on your first date, what you ate and did afterward. It will be like celebrating your anniversary and you can combine gifts with cards that mention how happy you are that you met her.

Partake in a physical activity

No not that kind of physical activity; I mean something that will get your heartbeat going, like ice skating or going for a hike in the woods and bringing wine to drink on the way. Such activities are perfect to boost an old and predictable relationship, and nothing will kick start a new relationship better than such a thrill ride. If you take her out take her to a pottery and painting shop where you can actually talk, be creative and share your thoughts. If you want to invite her over, make sure you cook something together so you’re both engaged in the activity.

Go for the message

Either you give her a message or better yet, reserve a double message for him and her. You should both take some time off and enjoy some relaxation together. It’s a lover’s day after all, not just girlfriend or wife’s day. Any kind of spa getaway is perfect for Valentine’s Day.

Make a path of rose petals

Girls flip over temptation, flirting and teasing, so buy a lot of rose petals or even potpourri, and leave a trail from the entrance of the house to the bedroom. Leave her a little gift on the bed and she’ll feel like it’s a romantic treasure hunt, and the rewards will be spectacular.

Rent a hotel and pretend your tourist

There is something exciting about not having to clean up the bedroom afterward, so rent a hotel room, grab some bubbly and use all your senses as you pretend to be out-of-town tourist on a love journey.

Don’t forget to do your homework

Nothing spices up a mundane relationship as much as staying at home, renting an erotic movie and “getting to know one another” better all over again. This is obviously not suitable for the first date if you catch my drift, but perfect for couples who have been together for sometime.

Have sex in public

Although this may not be for everyone--and all climates—some couples will get a thrill of a lifetime if they perform the act on risky grounds. It definitely serves as a bonding period and sure to serve as a great inside joke between the two of you for years to come.

Get away

If you work, time and budget allow it; plan a two or three day vacation getaway, specifically at a ski or spa resort. This is guaranteed wild action, and may even take place outdoors.

Dress up

Dress up as if you’re going to an opera, and go to a restaurant or just have dinner at home. Girls love an excuse to get all dolled up and the fact that you’ll be getting dressed up will make anything you decide to do seem line a special occasion. This will be telling her you think she will special, and she’ll love it.

Pop the question

If you think the time is right and you have that look in your eyes…if you are sick of the single life, and if you are…well, when the I’s are dotted and the T’s are crossed, then maybe, just maybe, there is no better time to propose to her.

How To Preserve and Improve Your Marriage or Relationship

In love, it’s the little things that count. A gift, a compliment, holding hands, a simple thank you or even physical contact can massively strengthen your relationship.

I have been married for some time now. Recently my wife and I were talking about things that we do that divorced or separated couples inadvertently did not do.

1. “I Love You”
Three small words that change your relationship. Actions speak louder than words – say it and act it. Speak from your heart to your partner.

2. Hold Hands and Put Your Arms Around Each Other
Physical contact gives your lover a warm fuzzy feeling and shows the love and affection you feel for them. The littlest touch can be as important, as a long night of sexual intimacy.

3. Say Thank You. Show appreciation for your partner
Let your lover know on a regular basis what it is that you like most about them — what you appreciate, what makes you happy, and what their strengths are.

4. Share Your Thoughts
Tell them your likes and dislikes, dreams, anxieties, achievements and errors, or anything else to yourself. It’s important to you, share it!

5. Be there
Be there and listen to the little things such as a bad day at work, a rough commute, or a misplaced item.

6. Give Little Gifts
Take advantage of opportunities to give material tokens of your love. Just the right magazine picked up at the bookstore, a special food, a piece of jewelry or clothing you noticed — anything small that tells them you were thinking of them.

7. React politely to your lover’s demands and shortcoming, a big killer of romance is great expectations. We all have our range of human failures and weaknesses. Learn to see and appreciate your partner’s idiosyncrasies for what they are—a part of them.

8. Make “Alone Time”
Too many couples give up on going out on a date after they get married. GO OUT ON A DATE ONCE A WEEK. I don’t care what is — a movie, dinner or going for a walk in the park. Just do it.

9. Never Take Your Lover For Granted
Cultivate a sense of gratitude for your lover and the thousands of small blessings he or she has brought into your life.

10. Equality
The Golden Rule in your relationship: do unto your partner as you would have done unto you. Try hard to divide up household jobs and care of the kids — better yet, strive to do more than your fair share.

All the best —

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