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SexToy Cal is a Relationship and Romance Consultant. He believes everyone should embrace, enjoy and appreciate their sexuality. We encourage all adults to explore their sensuality and find new ways heighten their physical pleasures and lead a “Sex Positive” lifestyle. We offer a private place where you can find the best adult sex toys and movies as well as learn more about sex and sexuality. SexToy Cal offers an array of sex toys that include vibrators (rabbits included of course), dildos in every size and color (check out the realistics), anal sex toys, male masturbators and more. We also have a huge catalog of adult movies ranging from award winning features like Pirates to instructional videos such as Nina Hartely’s Guide to Stripping for Your Partner. Whatever your pleasure you’re sure to find something new. The most important thing is to make sure you have fun while you explore and learn more about your sexuality. If you have any questions or would like to learn more about our Romance Parties or even schedule a FREE Private Romance Consultation for you, your spouse or your partner, contact me here or call me at 1-818-219-4165.

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How to be a better lover, how to have orgasms, how to have multiple orgasms, how to have G-spot orgasms, how to have orgasms during sex, anal sex, threesomes, how to increase one's libido, what to do if you're partner has cheated, what to do to bring back a waning sex life, what to do f you're partner isn't interested in sex with you, sex during pregnancy, sex after kids, sexual abuse, sex toys, Kama Sutra sex, penis size, how to make one's penis perfom, erectile dysfunction, crossdressing and just about anything else you can think of.

Our Romance Parties and Romance Consultations are affiliated with Temptations Parties owned by Adam & Eve and The Sinclair Intimacy Institute (creater of the Better Sex Series). We are also a proud sponser of DKT International, which provides family planning, contraception and HIV/AIDS prevention to many impoverished countries. A portion of all Temptation Parties proceeds goes to DKT International so they can ensure that contraceptives and services are available when and where they are needed most. For more information go to http://www.dktinternational.org/

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Saturday

8 Dating Mistakes Women Make


Trying to make your new relationship last or just looking to avoid a repeat of your latest dating mistakes? Follow our guide to finding Mr. Right. (No, it’s not impossible!)

by http://www.TheRomanceGuru.com

Dating Mistake #1: Being Too Available

We’re not suggesting you play games, but we are telling you to indulge your passions and resist the urge to abandon your social circle every time your new man sends an invitation. Take Sebastian, 34, from Chicago, for example: “When I was single, there were women I initially liked who seemed to be waiting by the phone for me to call, which let me know if I didn’t meet someone else I wanted to date, I had a standby. There just wasn’t anything to work for, and that turned me off,” he says. The more you engage in and enjoy your life, the more he’ll work to be a part of it.

Dating Mistake #2: Trying to Rehabilitate a Bad Boy

Ending a relationship is rarely easy, and though flying solo might not be your long-term goal, being on your own is better than feeling alone in a relationship with someone who treats you poorly. Even when it might be tempting to give a toxic romance one more try, knowing when to cut your losses and move on leaves you available and baggage-free when the right guy comes along.


Dating Mistake #3: Looking for Perfection

Encouraging you to settle isn’t our style, but separating your desires from your deal-breakers can give your love life a major upgrade. “There are some qualities that your mate must have—being honest, for example—and others, such as movie-star looks, that should be thrown in the would-be-nice category,” says Elizabeth R. Lombardo, Ph.D., author of A Happy You: Your Ultimate Prescription for Happiness. “Sit down and realistically figure out what characteristics are nonnegotiable and then be open-minded about the rest.”

Dating Mistake #4: Feeling Sorry for Yourself

Resist the urge to bemoan your single status (which will only make him wonder why you find yourself such terrible company) and use this time to date yourself. Taking a dance class at the local studio, hitting up the exhibit you have been aching to see and trying out the new wine bar on the corner will not only offer you the chance to have more fun but will also leave you more likely to meet someone who shares your interests. So much better than sitting in your apartment waiting for someone to “wink” at your online profile picture, isn’t it? Another bonus? You’ll have far more interesting things to talk about over dinner than what your boss made you do on your lunch break last Friday.

Dating Mistake #5: Knowing His Thread-Count Before You Know His Phone Number

Getting it on with a sexy stranger is your natural-born right, but according to many guys, it can be the wrong move if you’re looking for long-term love.

Follow the advice of super-sexy leading man Gilles Marini (he was Samantha’s sexy neighbor in Sex and the City: The Movie): “Men love women who respect themselves and who do not rush into bed with them but instead go on a few dates, where they can start to gain an understanding of each other and then decide whether or not to take things further. Women need to know that taking it slow and getting to know one another is the best way to get into a good relationship,” he says.

Dating Mistake #6: Being Too Selfish in Your Relationship

One of the downsides of being independent is that it can lead to some self-absorbed tendencies—a huge turnoff for men looking for a serious relationship, says Ming Gregory, a professional matchmaker at Color Blind International Dating Service. So make sure you’re giving as much as you’re receiving in your next relationship. “A partnership involves two people who share mutual interests and mutually benefit one another,” she says. “It’s not just about what being with him can provide you; it’s about how you can come together to complement each other.”

Dating Mistake #7: Believing in The One

“A lot of women make dating more difficult by placing so much pressure on themselves to find the one-and-only-man-in-a-billion they believe is right for them,” says Ali, 35, from Gaithersburg, Maryland.

Instead of convincing yourself the ex you dumped was your soul mate or that perfect-but-married co-worker was your one that got away, take a cue from our male counterparts and approach the dating scene with the idea that there are plenty of men who are capable of making you laugh, sharing your values and melting your heart, and you’re going to have fun with several of them until you find one worthy of your commitment.

Dating Mistake #8: Forgetting Your Manners

We can’t imagine this is something you’d ever do, but a little reminder never hurts: Say thank you.

“Good manners have become so old-fashioned that men now wait for the thank-you at the end of the date as a way to see if she’s worth seeing again,” says Brian, 30, from New York City. “I don’t care if the woman looks like Kate Beckinsale and has a Ph.D.; if she can’t be bothered to utter those two little words, I am never calling her again.”

Tuesday

Good Penis Health = SizeGenetics + PenisHealth

It’s true what we suspected all along guys. Size Does Matter and it matters to most of them. Studies of women across the world show that most of them (around 86%) prefer a large penis as opposed to a smaller one. This is one of the main reasons why most men worry about the size of their penis sometime or the other in their life.

Those who fall short on this assessment need not resign themselves to a sexually frustrating life. Thankfully, penis enlargement and penis enhancement is possible by adopting several proven methods. Two of the most popular methods among men who seek larger penis size are SizeGenetics and PenisHealth.

While you are in for great gains when you use any of these products, the best formula to reap tremendous benefits is to adopt both these products together. Natural exercise plans like the ones shown on the PenisHealth DVDs in combination with penis extenders like SizeGenetics work much faster to enlarge the penis significantly.

Thousands of men who have adopted the two products in combination find that they have been able to enlarge their penis by 1-3 inches and also dramatically enhance their sexual performance. You can get this combination by ordering SizeGenetics System from www.sizegenetics.com

The SizeGenetics

The clinically proven SizeGenetics enlarges the size of your penis by using the penis stretch method. You need to place the extender on your penis by following the simple instructions that come with the product. Next, you need to set a particular tension that pulls at the penis with just right intensity to increase the size of the penis. This slow gradual traction helps in adding inches to the penis.

The tension that SizeGenetics applies results in multiplication of the cells of the penis tissue. This, in turn, results in significant increase in penis size. The whole process is quite similar to how your muscles grow when you do weight training.

Size Genetics is not only a medically proven product; it is also completely safe and guarantees great results. The results have been so astounding that it is acclaimed by international media as the “Rolls Royce of Penis Enlargement”.

The PenisHealth

Just like weight training helps muscle growth, penis exercises enable penis enlargement. Proper exercise will not only help in growing the size of your penis, it will also increase the flow of blood into the region. This, in turn, will help the penis to achieve a much bigger and longer lasting erection.

There is a point of concern here though. Not knowing how to perform these exercises can end up straining the penis tissue. Seemingly simply exercises like jelqing and kegels can hurt the penis if not performed with acute precision. Therefore, it is crucial that to achieve maximum advantage from these exercises, you follow a ‘visual’ instruction and understand fully well how to perform these exercises.

PenisHealth is a complete package of 100+ videos and 200+ pictures to provide you step-by-step by instructions to perform penis exercises. You just need to spend only 7 minutes a day and see your penis grow within a few weeks.

The SizeGenetics + PenisHealth Synergy = SizeGenetics System!

The SizeGenetics system combines the power of penis extender and penis exercises. They work effectively in combination with each other and produce holistic results. The best part is that exercises help in reducing the time the device needs to be worn.

The exercises work from within the penis by increasing the flow of blood in the area, while SizeGenetics works from outside by providing the necessary tension, to increase the size of the penis up to 4 inches. Individually too these products produce fantastic results, but when used in combination the results are multiplied manifold.

So if you are looking for most effective and permanent solution to your small penis problem, the SizeGenetics system could be your best shot to glory.

Click here to get your SizeGenetics System today!

SizeGenetics versus Penis Enlargement Surgery

So you are amongst the 80% of men who do feel that they could do with a few more inches on their penis. The next step obviously is to find out how you can add these inches. There seem to be two popular methods here; one is opting for a penis enlargement surgery and the other is using penis traction device like SizeGenetics.

Lets compare and see which method is more suitable and why –

• Cost – Penis enlargement surgery costs several thousand dollars. Even the most basic surgery will require a team of professional doctors and you will need to be given anesthesia as well as monitored right through the operation. The cost of the hospital, the surgery room and the doctors runs into thousands and not wrongly so.

So what about SizeGenetics? Well, the cost of the device is less than a fraction of the cost of penis enlargement surgery. SizeGenetics wins here hands down!

• Results?!?! So penis surgery is very expensive, but it must be worth its cost? No! Penis enlargement surgery is known to go wrong rather frequently. In fact more than two-thirds of patients state that they were not happy with the results. There are horrifying stories of patients passing out on seeing their deformed penis after surgery.

Penis enlargement surgery can go wrong and the results here can lead to a completely non-functional penis. Loss of blood circulation, bruising in the penis shaft and head area and even deformity are common scenarios of penis surgery going wrong. In short, penis enlargement surgery does not guarantee a larger and better penis. Many doctors and medical institutions actually warn people against them as one of research has shown that 95% after 1 year are unhappy with the result.

SizeGenetics on the other hand is a clinically proven safe device that is known to have helped thousands of men to increase their penis by several inches. No side effects, no risks, no pain. Couple months of usage and you could get 1-3 inches bigger penis.

• Risk – Penis surgery is a very high risk option of penis enlargement. The damage done during such surgery is mostly irreversible. This means that the patient is stuck with a malfunctioning and deformed penis for the rest of his life. Also, the basic risks of undergoing surgery are all present in this case.

So those allergic to anesthesia or certain medications or those who suffer from heart diseases and blood pressure, may not actually be able to get the surgery done at all.

SizeGenetics on the other hand is fully guaranteed. There have been no risks reported to date for SizeGenetics. Almost anyone can use the device by following the simple instructions. Only condition – your penis have to be around 3 inches in flaccid state or longer.

• Money back – Penis enlargement surgery costs phenomenally, but if you are not happy with the results, there is little you can do about it. No part of the surgery fee is refundable and in most cases patients are stuck with a deformed penis and a lighter pocket.

SizeGenetics is so sure of its product, that it offers a full money back guarantee up to 6 months from the date of purchase. In fact, if you send them before and after pictures – they will refund your money so actually you can get bigger penis for FREE!!!

The choice between SizeGenetics and penis enlargement surgery is a clear one. Where surgery is a risky, expensive and unguaranteed procedure, SizeGenetics is a safe, clinically-proven device that has helped several men in not only enlarging their penis but also bettering its performance.

So rather than wasting your money and risking the health of your penis on unsafe and non-effective methods of penis enlargement, simply go with SizeGenetics and enjoy a bigger, better and healthier penis in no time.

For more information on SizeGenetics click here.

Friday

Valentine’s Day Activities


If you don’t know what to do on Valentine’s Day, but you do know, you don’t want to give the love of your life the same old chocolates and flowers that everyone else is getting, then you'll need to mix it up a bit and have some originality, here are some tips that will help get you in the right direction.

Reenact your first date

One of the most romantic things you can do is get nostalgic with your girlfriend or wife. Women go gaga for guys who remember the details of the past, such as the restaurant you went to on your first date, what you ate and did afterward. It will be like celebrating your anniversary and you can combine gifts with cards that mention how happy you are that you met her.

Partake in a physical activity

No not that kind of physical activity; I mean something that will get your heartbeat going, like ice skating or going for a hike in the woods and bringing wine to drink on the way. Such activities are perfect to boost an old and predictable relationship, and nothing will kick start a new relationship better than such a thrill ride. If you take her out take her to a pottery and painting shop where you can actually talk, be creative and share your thoughts. If you want to invite her over, make sure you cook something together so you’re both engaged in the activity.

Go for the message

Either you give her a message or better yet, reserve a double message for him and her. You should both take some time off and enjoy some relaxation together. It’s a lover’s day after all, not just girlfriend or wife’s day. Any kind of spa getaway is perfect for Valentine’s Day.

Make a path of rose petals

Girls flip over temptation, flirting and teasing, so buy a lot of rose petals or even potpourri, and leave a trail from the entrance of the house to the bedroom. Leave her a little gift on the bed and she’ll feel like it’s a romantic treasure hunt, and the rewards will be spectacular.

Rent a hotel and pretend your tourist

There is something exciting about not having to clean up the bedroom afterward, so rent a hotel room, grab some bubbly and use all your senses as you pretend to be out-of-town tourist on a love journey.

Don’t forget to do your homework

Nothing spices up a mundane relationship as much as staying at home, renting an erotic movie and “getting to know one another” better all over again. This is obviously not suitable for the first date if you catch my drift, but perfect for couples who have been together for sometime.

Have sex in public

Although this may not be for everyone--and all climates—some couples will get a thrill of a lifetime if they perform the act on risky grounds. It definitely serves as a bonding period and sure to serve as a great inside joke between the two of you for years to come.

Get away

If you work, time and budget allow it; plan a two or three day vacation getaway, specifically at a ski or spa resort. This is guaranteed wild action, and may even take place outdoors.

Dress up

Dress up as if you’re going to an opera, and go to a restaurant or just have dinner at home. Girls love an excuse to get all dolled up and the fact that you’ll be getting dressed up will make anything you decide to do seem line a special occasion. This will be telling her you think she will special, and she’ll love it.

Pop the question

If you think the time is right and you have that look in your eyes…if you are sick of the single life, and if you are…well, when the I’s are dotted and the T’s are crossed, then maybe, just maybe, there is no better time to propose to her.