4 Ways to Improve Your Love Life

by SHAPE Magazine,

1. Have more fun in bed
To spice up your sex life, skip the lingerie and buy sneakers instead. People who regularly work up a sweat outside the bedroom feel more sexually desirable, finds a study at the University of Arkansas. Other research from Duke University Medical Center shows that when overweight men and women lost just 10 percent of their body weight, they enjoyed sex more. Get moving and watch your between-the-sheets confidence soar.

2. Limit your TV time
Research from Purdue University reveals that people who chat while the TV is blaring look at their companions 36 percent less often than they do when it's turned off—and that results in a less satisfying exchange. "Even if TV serves as background noise, you're distracted," says study author Glenn Sparks, professor of communication. His recommendation: Watch only the shows you truly love. "With the set turned off the rest of the time," says Sparks, "you'll create more opportunities for conversation and be able to focus on your loved one as you talk."

3. Laugh together
Laughter can lower blood pressure and burn calories, but it may also strengthen your bond with your guy. According to a new study in the journal Motivation and Emotion, couples who reminisced about sharing a laugh were more satisfied with their relationships than those who didn't. "Laughing together builds a supply of good memories," says lead author Doris Bazzini. "You'll call on it later, when times get tough."

4. Communicate better
Some people say you shouldn't have serious conversations in the bedroom, but it can be one of the best places for couples to reconnect without distractions. Here are some communication-improving tips:

* Set aside time to just talk in bed. Though many couples find nighttime the most convenient, others may prefer to have coffee together in bed in the a.m.

* Put the cell phones in another room; then turn off the computers, PDAs, and the ringer on the landline.

* Keep it positive. Never start the conversation with an accusation or question, advises Sally. So instead of saying, "Why don't we ever go out anymore?" try, "I wish we could spend more time together."

* Don't rule any topic out of bounds. It's all about reconnecting once a day, without any outside distractions. And who knows, she says, a great conversation may lead to something else!

Sex & Coffee

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Wow, what a weekend. We had some coffee on Friday night and then the weekend was full of sex. I have never seen my man hard so many times. The wind would blow and he would come bounding to my side to show me, proudly that I needed to come play.
We were just casually enjoying the evening, sitting under the tree in the back yard, enjoying a beverage...then the wind blew...
After that first round of wild and crazy sex our stamina was a little less, but each time seemed like we were still newly weds. He caressed and purred in all the right places. We were definitely pleasuring each other to the fullest. Hot steamy kisses, massaging, and of course, penetration...deep penetration.

The weekend is over now, and it's back to work we go, but memories of passion resurface each time I feel muscles that were a little overworked. It brings a smile to my face. People are probably wondering all day what caused the smile that never left. If they only knew what combining a little coffee & sex would get them.

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Relaxing Together In a Tough Economy

By NewsUSA

(NU) - Fuel prices are up, employment rates are down and the pundits are bandying around that scary phrase, “economic recession.” The budgetary strain is bad enough, but even well-off Americans seem likely to bring that stress home. Americans are concerned about their money. In a recent study called “Stress in ,” the American Psychological Association found that 73 percent of respondents considered economic woes a significant source of stress. Moreover, money worries were affecting respondents’ homes and relationships. Fifty-four percent of respondents reported fights with their partners or spouses. Stress related to money is one of the leading causes of divorce. But couples can use the financial crisis to get closer together. Financial and marriage counseling can help partners work through budget problems together. Here are some tips for Americans hoping to become closer with their partner despite monetary troubles:

- Make time for romance. Sometimes, you need to put troubles aside and spend time as a couple. Go see a show. Stay in for a romantic dinner. Finish dinner with a cup of coffee like Magic Power Coffee (www.AphrodisiacCoffee.com), an all-natural vitality stimulant for couples that are made of herbs such as Epimedium (Horny Goat Weed) and Barberry Wolfberry. Magic Power Coffee is a natural lifestyle product that is discrete, classy and fun.

- Set a budget together. If one person never sees the bills, they might not see spending in the same light as the partner who pays the mortgage. If money’s tight, take the opportunity to discuss your finances together. To prevent future frustrations with your partner’s spending habits, sit down and figure out how much you spend each month and what expenses each of you are willing to cut.

- Take a deep breath. If you’re stressed out about money, you might become more easily irritated. But picking fights with your partner won’t do anything for the DOW. Try to recognize when you feel stressed. Separate yourself from the situation. Are you in a bad mood? If so, read a book or take a run until you feel clearheaded enough to discuss any real problems with your spouse. To ease the tension and return the spark to your romance, you can always pour a cup of the Magic Power Coffee.